Where to Go on the First Date
Big Mistake for First Dates:
It should be easy to see the big mistake that guys make on their first date, above. many guys make the first date far to elaborate and “special”. Besides all the time, energy and money this puts into the event that are wasted if you do not “click” this puts undo pressure on both the man and woman.
It is hard to grow to “like” a stranger if you feel out of place. Assuming too much about your date can put both her out of place as well as yourself. If you feel out of place you will not be confident, therefore far less attractive to women. The same hold true for her.
So where should you go on your first date.
Part of it is trying to get a quick “read’ on the girl you are planning on dating. What do you think she would like, that is fairly, casual. It is OK to be wrong, it is far more important that you pick some place YOU are comfortable.
Meet her for drinks:The drinks do not have to be alcoholic
You could meet her at a juice bar, a coffee shop or anywhere you can casually meet and talk. the only important thing is that you do not meet to “eat”. Eating in front of a woman has too many connotations and adds a lot of extra pressure
Meet her for neutral activities
These should be relatively innocent things that she can meet you for. Such as a new exhibit museum or a sporting event. It should be someplace where you also have some time to talk, but nothing too fancy or expensive.
Get Physical on your date
Not THAT Physical. I am talking sports or exercise. This is one that really does depend on the “type” of girl. But if she seems like the “outdoorsy” type go for a walk on the beach, or a hike. Go on a bike ride. Perhaps even Miniature golf or bowling. the important thing is that they are events that you like, enjoy and you at least -believe- she would like too.
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